Emotional Preparation. What Brought That On and What Do We Do About It?

Emotional Preparation cannot really be anticipated, only handled as required. Both the Caregiver and the Caregiven will experience changeable emotions and frustrations based on the recent events of the hour. Frustrations may build over time and then erupt without warning. The aftermath depends on how the Caregiver handles it.

The roles tend to change into the caregiver becoming a parental figure. At all times, the caregiven must be given the proper respect and attention to maintain their self-esteem. They have not become children, so don't treat them as such. (Sometimes easier said than done, but that is the goal.)

The better you know the personalities, moods and attitudes, the better prepared to deal with the emotional swings. The even-tempered and up-beat patient is easy to assist. Those that are not are a major challenge and more difficult to deal with. If you can't handle the emotional and psychological pressure don't take on the effort, it only get more difficult as conditions change and your involvement increases. However, if you have no other choice, find a way to deal with your frustration and an outlet to vent it. Do not take it out on the patient.